How can I get in the Army again?

I was discharge for the Army in October 2008. They discharged me with ch 5-13 (personality disorder) and said that I would be able to rejoin again. I got married right before I was saposed to deploy and my husband convinced me to say I cant handle deploying right then n they sent me to a mental hospital for a week and said that I made suicidal allegations. I never said I wanted to kill myself but thry took it as that I guess. Well, in return , they discharged me and said I have a borderline personality disorder. long story short, after my husband convinced me of all that, he decided he didnt want to be with me anymore. So, now, I am trying hard to get back in. I know I was stupid to listen to him, so please dont give any responses like that. I have had a mental exam and have proven I dont have bpd. I need to get back in. So i guess my questions is how can I get back in because the recruiter here doesnt wanna help, and does anyone know of anyone that has gotten back in after this discharge?